By: Debbie M Blackburn
A breakup might make you feel free initially but you are bound to feel low eventually. Breakups necessarily do not indicate that one has dumped the other or one fell out of love. Basically many a times circumstances are to be blamed or maybe the involvement of a third person. In that case there’s high chances that it might be fixed.
But, then, the basic truth is that the few days leading to a breakup is always stressful. So, soon after your breakup don’t try engaging in dating online or speed dating, instead give yourself time, try doing what you always loved to do. However, turning on melancholy tracks isn’t a good idea.
Once you have cooled down, it is time to think about the breakup. Yes, where you went wrong or what went wrong, whether you want to fix it or get over it. The best time to do so is within two weeks. Else, you might regret it a year or two later and screw up things, even more.
In two weeks from the breakup your ex might try getting in touch with you. This is a positive sign. If you want to get back and have no sign from your ex, it might indicate that your ex was unsure about your feelings. So, firstly, try knowing if she is at all interested to talk it out with you. You could ask mutual friends or siblings to help.
If you have a negative sign, it is better to leave than try calling her over and over again. But, if you have a positive sign, meet your ex. It is best to fix a meeting during the lunch or at s coffee shop, for a light conversation. In the mean time you ought to check where your faults were, who were you when you had won your ex’s heart. And work on it.
You could try a makeover, wear something your ex had complimented you on. Don’t try to make him/her jealous how to get your ex back. Make sure you don’t start a conversation with you want to get back into a relationship and so on. Don’t show you’re nervous or down, control your tears or try not to get hyper. Prepare your first words. Try cracking in-jokes. Once you both are comfortable with each other, you could try talking your heart out.
Don’t start with apologies because it might restrict your ex from confessing important things. Save the apologies for the next step. However, keep in mind, it is either you are in a relationship or you are not. It is of no use being just friends, it is never possible to be friends with someone you love. However, if things went wrong because you or your ex could not trust or had been found cheating on you, it is better to stay away from that relationship instead of fixing it. So, if you have recently had a breakup, take a vital decision asap.
All the best.
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HI , THANKS ALOT FOR THIS ADVICE , IT SURE HELP ME ALOT AS I HAVE JUST BROKEN UP WITH MY BOYFRIEND .. I KINDA MISS HIM BUT WONT GO BACK AFTER READING YOUR POST .. IT DOES HELP ME TO MOVE ON AND REALIZE THAT BEING SINGLE CAN BE FUN